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顿悟了，感觉到前所未有的轻松

　　　　　　　　　　[color=Blue][b]顿悟了，感觉到前所未有的轻松[/b][/color]

　　一直感觉到很焦虑、烦恼、压力。我认为在这个物欲横流的时代，可能每个
人或多或少都会是这样，这是一种常态，没有太在意。昨天晚上我又考虑这个问
题，我是不是出了什么问题？考虑通了，我感觉到从没有过的轻松，感觉到要飘
然起来。

　　问题一：担心。我一直担心未来，担心自己挣不到钱怎么办、担心有了疾病
怎么办，等等，担心的问题很多。问题二：戒备心。人在江湖漂、岂能不挨刀。
我们不去搞别人，但自己要防着被别人搞。猜忌、戒备心太严重了，搞的自己很
敏感、很累。自己给自己编织了一张网：担心网、戒备网，猜忌网。这张网把自
己死死地把自己给网住了，时刻焦虑、烦恼、紧张伴随，长期下来，损害了健康，
轻松和快乐荡然无存。

　　其实，好多自己担心的问题、假象的问题、戒备的事情都没有发生，只是自
己太敏感和强势了，不想吃亏、害怕出事，于是不能放开自己的心胸，死守着自
己的蝇头小利，其实结果是自己失去的很多。失去了轻松快乐、失去了宽阔的胸
怀、得不到朋友，而得到的是时刻被担心、戒备心、焦虑、紧张、烦恼包围，真
的是得不偿失。

[[i] 本帖最后由 四海遊龍 于 2011-6-4 15:33 编辑 [/i]]

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楼主，其实这样的的事情这样的人在这个社会很多，但是，我们能够改变什么吗？不能的，你只能改变自己，可是，别人的心思呢？只要有利益关系存在的地方，你的心就永远也别想放下来，正所谓：人无伤虎意，虎有害人心。大概就是这个意思了。
    至于你所谓的防人，戒备心。这本来就是应该有的，无论是对什么样的人，说话都应该注意呀！有些人爱搬弄是非不说，还非常的八卦呀！在你的面对可是给你笑嘻嘻的，到了你的背后就是一刀子呀！这你就是你说的：”人在江湖漂、岂能不挨刀。“不过，你也不用去理会那些杂鱼，只要活出自己，做好你自己，做到问心无愧就是了。

人和人之间的关系不应该像楼主以前认为的那样，人和人应当宽容一点，少一点戒备，多一分关怀。可是宽容做起来真的不容易，需要长期的坚持。我目前也还做不到十分宽容，但是比以前好多了。

这些都是很现实的问题，害怕也没用，只能厚着脸皮去面对，

我不知楼主所谓的呉是指的什么，或者说具体达到了一个怎样的心境，但是人毕竟是要向前的，挫折什么的只是垫脚石罢了，加加油啊

人在江湖 顺其自然  不要苛求什么吧 》》》》》》》》》》》》》

作为一个男人就要拿的起放得下，成大事者不拘小节。历史上每一个伟人都是有人歌功颂德，有人臭骂，但是这并不影响他成为伟人。成功其实都是建立在别人失败的基础上，所以没什么好担心的，心在哪里，路就在哪里。

人要活的洒脱一点吗！心态须积极，我从来不给自己设网去束缚自己，人活着很不容易，索性把生活看简单一点，积极一点。不要猜忌，不要猜疑，不要把别人看的很物质。不然你会没有朋友，唯有诚以待人才会感觉到生活的美好。

楼主和我很像啊    我也担心未来   担心钱挣不着  不够花   担心生病    每天都有很多的压力   烦恼和焦虑让人头痛

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人这一辈子或许一直都在悟，今天悟出的东西就是明天执迷的根本，到了明镜非台就是不畏浮云遮望眼的时候，可惜需要活几辈子。不过在一个阶段固守一种高度是很有必要的。

感觉自己到现在为止身上还有很多楼主说的毛病，要尽快改进。